Short answer
Mary Magdalene lived alongside Jesus and knew him personally. All four gospels place her at the crucifixion or the empty tomb, and John 20 preserves a conversation between them almost word for word. The gospels never call her a prostitute. Neither did Pope Gregory the Great, whose sermon at Rome in about 591 merged her with two other women from Luke and John and called her a sinner. Rome separated them again in 1969 and raised her 22 July memorial to a feast in 2016. The Eastern churches never accepted the merger at all.
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A prayer for standing at a tomb
God, I am standing somewhere I did not want to end up, asking a question I already asked once tonight. I do not have a better sentence than the one I keep repeating.
You know what was taken. You know I would carry it back myself if anyone would tell me where it is. Meet me here before you ask me to explain myself.
If you say my name, help me hear it. If you send me somewhere, help me go. Keep me from reading silence as absence. Amen.
Did she actually walk the earth with Jesus?
Yes, and the gospels are unusually specific about it. Luke names her in a short list of women who traveled with Jesus and the twelve through Galilean towns while he preached, and who served the mission out of their own possessions. She is introduced there as the woman from whom seven demons had gone out.
She is also there at the end. Matthew, Mark and John name her at the crucifixion. Luke, who mentions the women from Galilee without naming them at the cross, names her once they reach the tomb. Mark and Matthew both record her watching where the body was laid, and Matthew has her sitting opposite the tomb afterward.
Set that against the twelve and the arithmetic is uncomfortable. Bartholomew and James the son of Alphaeus are named in the apostle lists and nowhere else in any gospel. Simon the Zealot is no better attested. She is named in all four gospels, at the execution, at the burial, and at the tomb. In the lists of women she is almost always placed first, the way Peter is placed first among the men, and ancient lists tended to lead with the person of most standing.
Every recorded meeting between them
The first is her healing. Luke 8:2 says seven demons had gone out of her, and the longer ending of Mark says he cast them out. Neither text describes the scene, names the affliction, or gives her a word of dialogue. Everything the gospels tell us afterward is what she did once it was over.
Then the road. She is one of the women who kept the mission funded and moving through Galilee, which means months or years of ordinary proximity that nobody bothered to write down.
Then the execution. John places her at the foot of the cross. Matthew and Mark place her among the women watching from a distance. Whatever the exact distance, she is in the record at the moment when most of the men are absent from it.
Then the burial, twice noted, as though the gospel writers wanted it established that she knew which tomb.
Then the garden, which is the only scene where the two of them speak at length. John 20 runs like this. She comes while it is still dark, sees the stone moved, and runs to Peter and the disciple Jesus loved with the report that the body is gone. The two men run to the tomb, look inside, and go back to their own homes. She stays.
Two angels ask why she is weeping. She answers them, turns around, and takes the man standing there for the gardener. She offers to carry the body away herself if he will tell her where it is. He says one word, her name, and she recognizes him. He tells her not to hold on to him because he has not yet ascended, and sends her to the others with a message about his Father and their Father, his God and their God.
Then the aftermath, which the gospels report without flattering anybody. She delivers the message and the men do not believe her. Luke says the women's words seemed to them to be nonsense. The longer ending of Mark needs one word for it. They disbelieved. Peter got up and ran to the tomb anyway.
What she said about Jesus, in her own words
Her recorded speech is very short. Four lines survive, all of them in John 20, quoted here from the World English Bible, which is in the public domain.
To Peter and the other disciple, before dawn: "They have taken away the Lord out of the tomb, and we don't know where they have laid him!" To the angels, a few minutes later: "Because they have taken away my Lord, and I don't know where they have laid him." The sentence is the same and one word has changed. The Lord became my Lord when the audience became someone who would not argue with her.
To the man she takes for the gardener: "Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away." She is a woman offering to lift a corpse by herself. Then one word back to him, "Rabboni!", which John stops to translate as Teacher.
Notice what is missing. She calls him Lord, Teacher and Sir. She never calls him God. The confession "My Lord and my God!" arrives eight days later in the same chapter, and it belongs to Thomas. Her titles are the titles of a follower who has not yet worked out what she is looking at, and she is sent anyway.
The prostitute story and where it came from
No gospel calls Mary Magdalene a prostitute. The word never appears anywhere near her name, and the man usually blamed for putting it there did not use it either. What actually happened is that three separate women were pressed into one, and the rest was supplied by centuries of preaching and paint.
Luke 7:36-50 tells of an unnamed woman in a Pharisee's house, described only as a sinner, who weeps on Jesus' feet and anoints them. She has no name and no town. Mary Magdalene is introduced in the next chapter as a different person entirely. John 11:2 identifies the woman who anointed the Lord as Mary of Bethany, the sister of Martha and Lazarus, who lives outside Jerusalem.
Pope Gregory the Great treated all three as one woman in Homily 33 of his homilies on the gospels, preached to the congregation in the basilica of San Clemente in Rome on the Friday of the September Ember Days, in about 591. He read the seven demons as seven vices and said she had been full of all of them. The word he used for her was sinner, taken straight from Luke 7. Most of the sermon is aimed at the Pharisee who looked down on her. A sermon is not a decree, and this one carried no definitional force. It shaped Western art, liturgy and legend for roughly fourteen centuries anyway.
Her home town did some of the work too. By the late first century Magdala had a reputation for vice, and the reputation of the place got attached to the woman named after it.
Paul VI's 1969 revision of the General Roman Calendar unpicked the merger. The accompanying commentary said the 22 July celebration concerns only the Mary Magdalene to whom Christ appeared after the resurrection, and neither Martha's sister nor the sinful woman whose sins the Lord forgave.
On 3 June 2016 the Congregation for Divine Worship raised that memorial to the rank of feast, the rank the apostles hold, with a proper preface titled de apostolorum apostola. The Vatican's own published explanation traces the Western merger to the same place, saying the tradition in the West made that identification "especially after St. Gregory the Great." A paragraph later the same article quotes Gregory approvingly, as the man who called her the first witness of divine mercy. Both things are true about him at once.
The Eastern Orthodox churches never made the identification. They keep Mary of Bethany as a separate saint, have never filed Mary Magdalene under penitent, and title her Myrrhbearer and Equal to the Apostles. Their devotional lives are not squeamish about her past. The Orthodox Church in America's life of her says tradition holds she was young and pretty and led a sinful life. What the East never did was fuse her with the woman in Luke 7 or with Martha's sister.
The short version of her life outside the gospels
Magdala was a fishing town on the western shore of the Sea of Galilee. Excavations that began in 2009 uncovered a synagogue there from the Second Temple period, the oldest yet found in Galilee, with a carved stone block near its center showing a seven-branched menorah and other Temple imagery. If her name means what it usually means, she prayed in that room. A minority of scholars, among them Elizabeth Schrader Polczer and Joan Taylor, argue that Magdalene, which means tower, was an honorific nickname instead of a place name.
After Easter the New Testament goes quiet on her. Acts and the letters never mention her again. Everything else is tradition, and the traditions disagree with each other.
Gregory of Tours, writing in the sixth century, says she retired to Ephesus with Mary the mother of Jesus and was buried in that city. A later Eastern account has her reaching Ephesus to live near the apostle John, and the Orthodox version adds travel through Rome, an audience with the emperor Tiberius and a red egg. Her relics were reported moved from Ephesus to Constantinople in the ninth century.
In the West, from about 1050, the monks of Vezelay Abbey in Burgundy said they had her skeleton. In December 1279 an excavation at Saint-Maximin-la-Sainte-Baume in Provence, backed by Charles II of Naples, produced a rival burial, and Provence gradually displaced Vezelay. The Golden Legend, compiled in the 1260s, fixed the French version in the popular imagination. The claims cannot all be true. Read them as devotion and keep them out of the history column.
How she and Jesus are alike
Both are known by a small place. He is Jesus the Nazarene. She is Mary of Magdala. Neither name is a family name, and both put a Galilean address on a person Jerusalem had to reckon with.
Both are recorded weeping at a tomb. He wept outside the tomb of Lazarus in John 11. She wept outside his own in John 20, same gospel, nine chapters later, in the same posture.
Both were disbelieved by the people closest to them. In Mark 3:21 the people around him go out to seize him because they think he has lost his mind. Her resurrection report struck the eleven as nonsense until Peter went and looked.
Both were sent, and both did the sending. In John 20:21 he tells the disciples that as the Father sent him, he sends them. He had already sent her four verses earlier, before any of them knew anything.
Both stayed where it cost something. She stood near the cross, and she stayed at the tomb after Peter and the other disciple had gone back to their own homes. Staying is the one thing the gospels never stop crediting her with.
How they are different, stated plainly
Jesus is worshipped. She is honored. Christian teaching draws that line hard, and the gospels draw it first. In Matthew 28:9 the women take hold of his feet and worship him, and he lets them. In John 20:17 she reaches for him and he tells her to let go. Nobody in the New Testament worships Mary Magdalene, and she never asks anyone to.
The healing runs one way too. Seven demons went out of her by his action. That transaction is never reversed anywhere in the text.
Catholic teaching keeps two different words for the two things. Writing about images of Christ and of the saints, the Catechism calls the honor paid to them a "respectful veneration," and says plainly that it is not the adoration due to God alone (CCC 2131 to 2132). Vatican II makes the matching point about the saints themselves. Every genuine testimony of love shown to those in heaven tends toward and terminates in Christ, and through him in God (Lumen Gentium 50). That same passage also tells Catholics they may ask the saints to pray for them.
Many Protestants draw the line further out. The Augsburg Confession of 1530 allows that the memory of the saints may be set before us so that we may follow their faith and good works, then says scripture does not teach invoking them, because it sets before us the one Christ as mediator and intercessor. Whether a Christian may ask her to pray is exactly where the traditions split, and it is a live argument inside Anglicanism as well.
The split is narrower than the calendars suggest. The Church of England lists Mary Magdalene among its Festivals, in the same column as Andrew, Peter and Paul, James, and the rest of the apostles. The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America marks her on 22 July as an apostle.
One more difference, and it is physical. Every gospel reports his tomb empty. Hers has been located at Ephesus, at Vezelay and at Saint-Maximin, by people who were all certain. That is the difference between a resurrection claim and a relic claim.
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What people are actually looking for at 1am
Almost everything typed into a search box after her name comes in one of three shapes. Was she a prostitute. Was she married to Jesus. Why does her story keep getting rewritten by people who never met her.
Underneath those there is usually a fourth question that nobody types. Is there anybody who stays. She stayed at the cross. She stayed at the tomb after the two men went home. The text is blunt about who left and who did not.
Her most repeated sentence is barely a prayer. They have taken away my Lord, and I do not know where they have laid him. No creed in it, no request, no attempt to sound composed. It was answered by someone saying her name.
So if you are awake and the only sentence you have is closer to a complaint than a prayer, say the complaint. That is the form hers took, and it worked.
And if you want to settle the prostitute question in your own Bible tonight, read Luke 7:36-50, then Luke 8:1-3, then John 11:1-2, in that order. Ten minutes will do it. Then tell one living person how you are before morning, because a message you deliver to nobody is the one part of her story you should not copy.
Questions for reflection
- 1What is the sentence you keep repeating tonight, word for word?
- 2Who went home already, and are you angry about it?
- 3Where did you first hear that Mary Magdalene was a prostitute, and did anyone ever show you the verse?
- 4She was sent before she understood any of it. What does that ask of you this week?
Common questions
Was Mary Magdalene a prostitute?
No gospel says so, and the word never appears near her name. Luke introduces her in chapter 8 as a woman freed from seven demons, one chapter after an unnamed sinful woman anoints Jesus in a Pharisee's house. Pope Gregory the Great fused those two women, plus Mary of Bethany, in a sermon preached at Rome in about 591. Even he called her a sinner, never a prostitute. The 1969 revision of the Roman calendar undid the identification.
Was Mary Magdalene married to Jesus?
No ancient source says she was. The canonical gospels never call her his wife, and the Gnostic texts that mention her do not either, though a damaged line in the Gospel of Philip is often read that way. Most people met the marriage claim through Dan Brown's 2003 novel The Da Vinci Code, which presented invented material as suppressed history.
How many demons did Jesus cast out of her, and what were they?
Seven, according to Luke 8:2 and the longer ending of Mark. Neither passage describes the affliction or the exorcism, and the longer ending of Mark is missing from the earliest manuscripts. Seven often signals completeness in ancient usage, so the phrase may be pointing at severity. Gregory the Great's reading of the seven as seven vices is his own interpretation and appears nowhere in the gospels.
Was Mary Magdalene the same person as Mary of Bethany?
Western Christianity treated them as one woman from Gregory onward. The gospels keep them apart. Mary of Bethany lives in Bethany near Jerusalem with Martha and Lazarus, and John 11:2 credits the anointing to her. Mary Magdalene is named for Magdala in Galilee. Eastern Orthodoxy has always kept them separate.
Why is she called the apostle to the apostles?
Because Jesus sent her to the eleven with the resurrection message before any of them had it. The Latin phrase apostolorum apostola runs through medieval Western writers, and the Vatican's published explanation of the 2016 decree credits Rabanus Maurus and Thomas Aquinas with applying it to her. Her 22 July celebration now carries the same liturgical rank as an apostle's feast.
How did Mary Magdalene die and where is she buried?
Scripture does not say. Gregory of Tours, writing in the sixth century, has her retiring to Ephesus and being buried there, and an Eastern account says her relics moved on to Constantinople in the ninth century. Western legend from about 1050 placed her in southern Gaul, and both Vezelay and Saint-Maximin-la-Sainte-Baume announced they had found her bones. The claims contradict one another, so treat all of them as devotion.
Is the Gospel of Mary in the Bible?
No. It survives only in fragments, its author is anonymous, and scholars place it in the second century, generations after she died. It carries her name because she is a character in it. Read it as evidence of early Christian argument about her standing among the disciples, and do not read it as an eyewitness account.
Do Protestants recognize Mary Magdalene as a saint?
Most honor her, with a real disagreement about what honoring means. The Augsburg Confession of 1530 allows Christians to remember the saints and imitate their faith while denying that scripture teaches praying to them. The Church of England lists 22 July among its Festivals alongside the apostles, and the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America marks her as an apostle. Practice on asking her to pray varies widely.
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Sources and further reading
- John 20 in the World English Bible
The public domain text used for every quotation of her own words on this page.
- Luke 8 in the World English Bible
Her introduction among the women who traveled with Jesus and served the mission.
- Holy See Press Office, decree raising the 22 July memorial to a feast
The decree of 3 June 2016, with the Latin preface de apostolorum apostola.
- Holy See Press Office, Mary Magdalene, apostle of the apostles
Archbishop Roche on the Western identification after Gregory the Great, and on Rabanus Maurus and Thomas Aquinas.
- Catechism of the Catholic Church 2131 and 2132
The Catholic wording that separates veneration from the adoration owed to God alone.
- Lumen Gentium, chapter VII
Vatican II on why honor given to the saints terminates in Christ, and on asking for their prayers.
- Augsburg Confession, Article XXI
The 1530 Lutheran position: remember the saints, do not invoke them.
- Church of England, Common Worship calendar
Mary Magdalene listed among the Festivals, in the same column as the apostles.
- Orthodox Church in America, Myrrhbearer and Equal of the Apostles Mary Magdalene
The Eastern account, including Ephesus, Tiberius, the red egg and the ninth-century move to Constantinople.
- Roger Pearse on Gregory the Great's Homily 33
The homily in translation, its September Ember Day rubric, and what it does and does not claim.
- Biblical Archaeology Society on the prostitute and marriage claims
How her reputation moved from saint to sinner in the West alone.
- Biblical Archaeology Society on the Magdala Stone
The Second Temple period synagogue uncovered at her home town from 2009.
